The aptly titled Dommemoir by I.G. Frederick delivers on so many levels that it defies categorization. One has to begin with the eroticism of it all, but it quickly sucks you in and envelopes you in the bondage of its spell, which is of course the best eroticism of all. Unlike so many works of erotica, Dommemoir is a character study that breathes complex and compelling life into its hero, the devastating Lady Geneviéve and the fortunate submissives who worship at her feet.
One rarely reads such a book unless one is already immersed in the culture and context of the scene, which makes this reading experience even more intense with possibilities. But even if you're not there yet, you will be after Dommemoir has infected your psyche, placing you in the delicious bondage of its dark and compelling landscape of a very different flavor of love. But love, nonetheless.
Larry Brooks, USA Today bestselling author of
Darkness Bound and Bait and Switch
as well as Story Engineering, the bestselling
writing craft book from Writer's Digest Books
Darkness Bound and Bait and Switch
as well as Story Engineering, the bestselling
writing craft book from Writer's Digest Books
Quotes from Dommemoir's Published Reviews
Dommemoir was a true eye opener. It caused me to stop and consider the other side of the coin through the eyes of the opposite sex. Men allowing women to be the dominant force in the relationship harbors such taboos in today's world. The author touched on how society views men who enjoy allowing their significant others to be in control and be subservient to another. I stopped and pondered many views that I previously thought to be un-savorable, and reconsidered them with a more open, educated mind.from review on BDSM Book Reviews
Dommenoir provides much to think about, and has a lot of erotic scenes that should appeal to both men and women who have turned to the Internet to help them explore BDSM.
Slave Nicholas and Lady Geneviéve's lives are not really that different of what we might call a normal life. After reading this book I have a better understanding of how they live and have a better understanding of their lifestyle. ... I recommend this book if you have no idea what a FemDom lifestyle is and would want to see it through their eyes.from review on Happily Ever After Reviews
Dommemoir is a well-written story of sexual expression triumphing over sexual repression and a brand of true love that could only ever be experienced within the restrictions of a BDSM relationship. For those who are already familiar with this lifestyle, Dommemoir should prove a telling tale where readers can recognise their own experiences and preconceptions as they are met and managed. For those who don't know the lifestyle but are curious to learn more, Dommemoir will give a fascinating insight to unimagined possibilities. (full review)from review on Erotica Readers & Writers Association
by Ashley Lister, Author of SWINGERS:
True Confessions from Today's Swinging Scene
and SWINGERS: Female Confidential
To say this book is intense is an understatement. Lots of emotions are expressed and the scenes drag you into the drama. You may not like or agree with everything going on but you can feel the yearning and the desires. Because it feels like an actual personal account, you become involved in the lives portrayed and feel like you have a vested interest in the outcome. (full review at Night Owl Romance Romance)
For those who are curious of the lifestyle, DOMMEMOIR is an educational as well as entertaining read. For those who live the lifestyle and read for entertainment purposes, DOMMEMOIR is a celebration of the love that exists within a committed triad. Well done, I.G. Frederick!!Five Mystique Moons. (Cosmic)
Class Five sensuality. (Raging Carnality)
from review on Mystique Books
by Brenda Thatcher, Co-Owner Mystique Books
Dommemoir is a knowledgeable, sympathetic look at the needs and desires of a dominant woman and a submissive man. ... I.G. Frederick describes the details of play sessions, piercing, branding and polyamory with skill and authority. Dommemoir is ultimately a love story, describing a full-time relationship many fantasise about but few will ever experience, but within its pages is plenty of comfort and affirmation for would-be pervs everywhere. (full review)
from a review in "Forum" magazine
by Elizabeth Coldwell, Editor
Through well-written words that echo two souls, the Lady G and Her slave nicholas, readers are escorted through a journey that many fail to explore. The core of what and who we are beyond desire, that truth of our existence and what makes us is revealed through the struggles, the trials, the losses and the triumphs recorded in this memoir. Lady G and nicholas present readers with a search for purpose and reason, the meaning in oneís existence, the ache for satisfaction and a portrayal of the courage to embrace the relief for that ache, even if itís an existence that must be protected from the vanilla world. (full review)
This book had me having to remind myself that it is a work of fiction. The characters are very real. ... It is a wickedly funny journey that left me thinking about the characters long after I finished the last page. Once I started I could not put it down.
from a review by Lora Swink on Goodreads
Review of Dommemoir
by Elizabeth Coldwell
"Forum" magazine editor
by Elizabeth Coldwell
"Forum" magazine editor
Geneviéve has lived in a vanilla marriage for many years, but while she's exceptionally well catered for financially, what she really needs is a man to serve her, a man who she can own body and soul, and who will do the household chores she hates. Nicolas has wanted to be a woman's slave ever since he was bossed around by a childhood playmate. Their journey will eventually lead them into a 24/7 BDSM relationship in which each will gain exactly what they want from the other, but there are setbacks and disappointments for both of them before they reach that point.
Told in the form of two overlapping autobiographies, Dommemoir is a knowledgeable, sympathetic look at the needs and desires of a dominant woman and a submissive man. The Lady Geneviéve is a late bloomer while nicolas (BDSM protocol is followed here, with all the slaves and submissive characters having their names rendered in lower case) has always known he wants to worship a woman. Both of them are in marriages where their partner is unsympathetic to their needs, and one of the themes of this novel is the conflict betweeen those in the lifestyle and those in wider society who simply donít understand the need to dominate or submit.
The characters The Lady Geneviéve and nicolas meet along the way are composites of many in the lifestyle, from the online timewaster to the ageing sissy maid, and I.G. Frederick describes the details of play sessions, piercing, branding and polyamory with skill and authority. Dommemoir is ultimately a love story, describing a full-time relationship many fantasise about but few will ever experience, but within its pages is plenty of comfort and affirmation for would-be pervs everywhere.
Elizabeth Coldwell was editor of the
UK edition of "Forum" magazine.
Her short stories have appeared in more than twenty
anthologies including Best SM Erotica Vols 1 and 2,
Yes, Sir and Spanked: Red Cheeked Erotica.
UK edition of "Forum" magazine.
Her short stories have appeared in more than twenty
anthologies including Best SM Erotica Vols 1 and 2,
Yes, Sir and Spanked: Red Cheeked Erotica.
Review of Dommemoir
by JAG
Professional Reviewer, author of My Secret Obsession
Professional Reviewer, author of My Secret Obsession
Imagine devotion, commitment and servitude. Utter surrender to being owned completely. Visualize love that knows no boundaries but those that are proposed. Existing as a slave to a divine worship and existence, knowing no greater degree of ecstasy than giving ecstasy. Pleasure becoming pleasure only when decreed by the receiver in the moans, the praise, the pat on the head, the punishment, the eternal collar of gold, the piercing, and the brand of a lifetime from Her. She who is the inspiration, the source, the reason The Lady G and her Dommemoir.
Fairy tales dictate a prince for every princess to take her away into a happily ever after where she is the center of his universe. When we awake from the fairytale, we are often left in bewilderment wondering where all the promises went. So is the awakening of Genevieve after Her marriage ends. In search of assistance for managing the basics in Her life, Genevieve turns to service as the solution.
As she begins to enlist help for keeping her house clean, Genevieve finds a growing joy in male servitude and allows herself to become the Lady G that she had always been but hadn't allowed herself to discover. Up until then, I had lived a pretty vanilla life. I didn't know I was a sadist. I hadn't explored my dominant nature or discovered that I crave the worship of a male slave who truly believes I am his Supreme Goddess (p 2).
Through well-written words that echo two souls, the Lady G and Her slave nicholas, readers are escorted through a journey that many fail to explore. The core of what and who we are beyond desire, that truth of our existence and what makes us is revealed through the struggles, the trials, the losses and the triumphs recorded in this memoir. Lady G and nicholas present readers with a search for purpose and reason, the meaning in one's existence, the ache for satisfaction and a portrayal of the courage to embrace the relief for that ache, even if it's an existence that must be protected from the vanilla world.
Ultimately, Dommemoir is an opportunity to do more than explore The Lifestyle. Readers explore what it means to embrace life and boldly venture into a destiny of one's own design, taste and meaning. Often times, we find our answers in unexpected places, sometimes in more than one place. And love in a variety of ways and hearts that leave us branded forever in memory.
Review of Dommemoir
by Ashley Lister
Professional Reviewer, author of My Secret Obsession
Professional Reviewer, author of My Secret Obsession
Dommemoir begins with the narrator, Lady Geneviève, introducing herself and her passion for sexual sadism. Lady Geneviève is a personable storyteller, honest about her passions and forthright in her attitudes and opinions towards BDSM. She frankly admits to preconceived limitations and reservations about some aspects of BDSM. But she’s honest enough to concede that the allure of sexual sadism has always had a command over her libido. As Lady Geneviève explains at the conclusion of the first chapter:
“There is a vast disparity between the number of submissive men in the world and the women available to dominate them. I hope this memoir will inspire other women to seek the path that will lead them to receive the veneration they deserve. If the idea of a slave worshiping at your feet doesn’t appeal to you, please note that until recently I never knew that I needed it. I even found the idea of a man kissing my feet slightly repulsive. But, until a devoted slave has properly attended to your feet, you just can’t understand what you’re missing.”
Not that Dommemoir is written solely from Lady Geneviève’s perspective. The second chapter introduces slave nicholas who narrates his own place within the story that unfolds. Just as Lady Geneviève is a natural sadist, nicholas is a natural masochist. It’s apparent from the start that these two are supposed to be together but, because of societal constraints, the path of this love story is fraught with hurdles that need to be overcome. It’s also apparent, as Lady Geneviève dominates the narrative, that the story is more strongly focused on her voyage of discovery. Nevertheless, slave nicholas’s contribution provides an exciting and important background to Lady Geneviève’s growing immersion in the world of all things BDSM.
Dommemoir is a well-written story of sexual expression triumphing over sexual repression and a brand of true love that could only ever be experienced within the restrictions of a BDSM relationship. For those who are already familiar with this lifestyle, Dommemoir should prove a telling tale where readers can recognise their own experiences and preconceptions as they are met and managed. For those who don’t know the lifestyle but are curious to learn more, Dommemoir will give a fascinating insight to unimagined possibilities.
by Ashley Lister, Author of SWINGERS:
True Confessions from Today's Swinging Scene
and SWINGERS: Female Confidential
True Confessions from Today's Swinging Scene
and SWINGERS: Female Confidential